
U Up? How to Know You’re Ready to Move In
Nov 5, 2025
Jordana shares her pregnancy journey, comparing it to uncertain relationships. The hosts explore whether a love for energy drinks in the morning is a red flag. Listeners weigh in on ghosting after a first date and navigating situationships. They discuss moving in with partners, offering practical advice on when to take that leap, and reflect on their past experiences. The duo analyzes awkward first dates and the complexities of app culture, including how quickly connections can fade.
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Commitment Feels Like Uncertain News
- Jordana compares pregnancy anxiety to the uncertain feeling in relationships when you don't know if you'll get engaged.
- The emotional uncertainty can be worse than physical symptoms and shapes how people talk about major life changes.
Actions Reveal Your True Priorities
- Jared maps his life as a pie chart where comedy/work dominates and dating occupies a small slice.
- He argues actions matter more than words when someone claims dating is a priority.
Decide, Don't Slide Into Moving In
- Avoid sliding into moving in for logistical reasons like a lease ending; decide intentionally instead.
- Write lists of reasons you're excited and evaluate whether the move is a choice or convenience.

