Life Kit Dear Life Kit: My husband shuts down any time I try to talk about our finances
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Sep 7, 2023 Lindsay Bryan Podvin, a certified financial therapist and host of the Mind Money Balance podcast, dives into the tough topic of financial communication in relationships. She offers insights on why partners may shut down during money talks, emphasizing the importance of open dialogue for intimacy. Lindsay shares effective strategies for initiating conversations about budgeting and suggests creating a safe space for discussions. Plus, she highlights the stress-relieving benefits of nature, encouraging couples to refresh their minds and approaches to finances.
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Money and Relationships
- Openly communicating about money can deepen intimacy in romantic relationships, not harm it.
- Couples who discuss finances report higher happiness than those who avoid the topic.
Setting the Stage for Financial Talks
- Set a time and place to discuss finances with your partner, avoiding emotionally charged moments.
- Be specific about the topic, like 'food budget', to give your partner a heads-up and reduce anxiety.
Addressing Reluctance to Discuss Finances
- If your partner avoids money talks, express its importance to the relationship without judgment.
- Ask how you can make the conversation easier and consider professional help if needed.
