In this insightful discussion, Rheyza Medel, a special needs teacher with seven years of marriage experience, emphasizes teamwork and understanding in relationships. She shares how couples can navigate conflicts by viewing disagreements as growth opportunities. Rheyza explores the concept of 'heated agreements' and the importance of communication styles. Personal stories reveal the necessity of compromise and recognizing each other's strengths while addressing differences in time management. Tune in for practical tips on enhancing communication and resolving conflicts for a stronger bond!
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Different Travel Styles, Same Goal
Edward and Rheyza share how different travel styles led to 'heated agreements' during a planned trip.
Both desired to enjoy the trip but expressed it in contrasting ways, showing different paths to a shared goal.
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Clarify, Don’t Attack in Conflict
Recognize clarifying questions in conflict aren't attacks but tools to understand each other better.
Create consistency in communication to build trust and reveal true intentions behind questions.
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Speak Up To Grow Together
Share concerns even if it feels hard; silence can breed resentment and misunderstanding.
Communicate openly to align priorities and grow the relationship together.
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“When he asks me question, he's not against me. It’s not an attacking question; it's a clarifying question...” - Rheyza Medel
Arguments are inevitable in marriage, but what if they could strengthen your relationship instead of tearing it down? In this episode, Edward and Rheyza share candidly about their 7-year journey of learning to ‘fight well.’
Tune in to discover how they’ve turned conflicts into opportunities for growth and a deeper understanding of each other!
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