Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 161 - Love is Not Colorblind with Kevin Patterson
Mar 6, 2018
Kevin Patterson, creator of the Poly Role Models blog and author of 'Love Is Not Colorblind', dives into the nuanced intersections of race and polyamory. He emphasizes the importance of representation in literature and media, sharing his personal journey of evolving beauty standards. The discussion also tackles societal biases influencing attraction, encouraging self-reflection. Patterson sheds light on misconceptions about polyamory and advocates for inclusivity in both relationships and gaming culture, all while gearing up for his upcoming book tour.
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Create Inclusive Polyamory Spaces
- When organizing polyamory events, prioritize building diverse and inclusive communities.
- Pay attention to demographics to avoid unintentionally excluding marginalized groups.
Racism vs Discrimination Clarified
- Racism differs from race-based discrimination in that it involves systemic oppression, not just individual prejudice.
- Conflating these concepts hinders honest dialogue about race and social justice.
Love People Their Way
- Practice loving people in ways that make them feel loved, not just as you intend.
- Recognize when your support harms others and adjust accordingly without defensiveness.