The podcast explores processing grief, honoring loved ones, sobriety, and being a poet. They also talk about pickles and share stories of buying big pickles. The episode ends with holiday wishes and information about upcoming live shows.
Grief can bring people together to honor and remember the deceased.
Sobriety offers a new perspective on life and death, emphasizing the importance of celebrating and remembering loved ones.
Forgiveness and letting go of grudges bring healing and closure in the face of loss.
Deep dives
The Celebration of Life and Remembrance
The caller discusses the recent loss of a close friend to liver failure. They reflect on the impact of death and how it brings people together to honor and remember the person. They mention the importance of celebrating life and not getting consumed by grief. The caller plans to spread their friend's ashes in a meaningful location and expresses gratitude for the connection they had.
The Journey of Sobriety and Loss
The caller shares their experience with sobriety and how it has shifted their perspective on life and death. They discuss the profound impact of losing friends to addiction-related deaths and the guilt that can come with it. The caller emphasizes the importance of embracing life and finding ways to honor and remember loved ones who have passed away.
Finding Healing and Forgiveness
The caller mentions having a falling out with their friend before their untimely passing. However, they found healing and closure by reaching out to the friend's mother and having a heartfelt conversation. They reflect on the power of forgiveness and the weight that is lifted when choosing to let go of grudges and regrets.
Reflections on Death and Fear
The podcast episode explores the speaker's thoughts on death and fear. The speaker reflects on how death became a reality when someone close to them passed away, and how it still shocks them but no longer scares them. They mention finding solace in a higher power and the idea that death is a guarantee we all have to face. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of living each day to the fullest and not getting lost in mundane distractions.
Publishing a Poetry Book
The episode delves into the speaker's personal journey in publishing a poetry book. They share their surprise and joy at having their book accepted by a publishing company despite their initial doubts. The speaker expresses their gratitude for being seen and appreciated through their writing, and how the book has given them a sense of accomplishment and pride. They also discuss their decision to put a second book on hold, wanting to ensure that their motivations remain centered on the art rather than external validation.
This week's caller is dealing with the loss of a friend who died earlier this year. She and Geth talk about processing grief, honoring the people you love, what sobriety means to her, and how it feels to be a poet sharing her words with the world. Also, pickles.