Forever35 Episode 352: Motherhood in the Age of Surveillance with Amanda Hess
May 12, 2025
Amanda Hess, a critic at large for The New York Times and author of 'Second Life: Having a Child in the Digital Age,' joins the conversation to discuss the pervasive influence of online surveillance on motherhood. She highlights the challenges parents face in today's digital landscape and the essential role of community care. Hess also delves into the impact of the pandemic on new parents and the tension between technology and traditional parenting values, shedding light on the complexities of modern motherhood.
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Amanda's Self-Care Through Sobriety
- Amanda Hess stopped drinking for nine months to manage anxiety and promote self-care amidst book writing and motherhood.
- This significant lifestyle change helped her cope without relying on alcohol as a false anxiety cure.
Parenthood Spurs Health Awareness
- Becoming a parent heightened Amanda Hess's awareness of mortality and the need for self-care.
- She treats her body better now, inspired by the desire to be present for her children long-term.
Tech's Deep Role in Parenting
- Parenting today involves intense tech surveillance, from fertility tracking to smart baby monitors.
- Amanda experienced how technology intertwines deeply with pregnancy and early childrearing, shaping modern parenthood.
