

Matthew Hussey's Expert Tips for Attracting and Maintaining True Love
49 snips Aug 26, 2023
Matthew Hussey, a renowned dating and relationship coach and New York Times bestselling author, shares valuable insights on love and connection. He discusses the concept of 'activation energy' and how dating apps disrupt natural chemistry. Hussey emphasizes the necessity of communication, active listening, and empathy in building lasting relationships. He introduces the 'castle' metaphor for cooperation in love, explains the emotional complexities in partnerships, and highlights the importance of nurturing bonds through shared efforts and understanding.
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Dating Apps and Activation Energy
- Dating apps lower the activation energy for meeting people, making it easier to connect.
- This ease, however, disrupts the natural story of attraction and investment.
Traditional vs. Modern Dating
- Matthew Hussey contrasts traditional dating (calling, waiting for dates) with modern dating (swiping, instant matches).
- He highlights how the former fostered investment and anticipation, building the story of attraction.
The Paradox of Choice in Dating
- The constant influx of options on dating apps interrupts the natural progression of attraction.
- This makes it harder to focus on depth and genuine connection.