The School of Greatness

Matthew Hussey's Expert Tips for Attracting and Maintaining True Love

Aug 26, 2023

Matthew Hussey, a renowned dating and relationship coach and New York Times bestselling author, shares valuable insights on love and connection. He discusses the concept of 'activation energy' and how dating apps disrupt natural chemistry. Hussey emphasizes the necessity of communication, active listening, and empathy in building lasting relationships. He introduces the 'castle' metaphor for cooperation in love, explains the emotional complexities in partnerships, and highlights the importance of nurturing bonds through shared efforts and understanding.

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Quick takeaways

Active listening, empathetic understanding, and clear expression of feelings are essential for lasting relationships.

Building a strong relationship requires teamwork and a commitment to meet each other's needs.

Compatibility in areas like sex drive, financial values, belief systems, and time spent together is crucial for a lasting partnership.

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Building a Strong Relationship

Building a strong relationship requires showing up for your partner in ways that they need, not just ways that are comfortable for you. It is important to work on yourself and your own growth, while also being a supportive teammate in the relationship. Teamwork is crucial, where both partners are committed to building together and meeting each other's needs.

The Importance of Recognizing and Meeting Your Partner's Needs

00:41

The Importance of Builders in Relationships

02:11

The Difference Between Traditional and Modern Day Dating

03:05

Building a Teamwork Mindset in a Loving Relationship

01:03

Intro

1min

The Digital Shift in Modern Dating

5min

Navigating Modern Attraction

14min

Teammates in Communication

4min

Navigating Emotional Complexities in Relationships

19min

Navigating Expectations and Communication in Love

5min

Sustaining Love: Understanding Relationships

16min

The Convenience of Prime and Instacart for Everyday Needs

3min

Embracing Vulnerability and Personal Growth

2min

10.

Cultivating Love Through Personal Growth

5min

11.

Redefining Connection Beyond Dating

14min

12.

The Power of Supportive Connections

7min

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On today’s episode of The School of Greatness, I talk about the key to lasting relationships with an international guru of the dating and relationship-coaching scene: Matthew Hussey. Hussey emphasizes the importance of active listening, empathetic understanding, and clear expression of feelings. He highlights that genuine communication forms the foundation of strong partnerships and helps resolve conflicts constructively.

Matthew Hussey is a speaker, New York Times Bestselling author, columnist for Cosmopolitan Magazine, and dating expert on ABC’s digital series What To Text Him Back. His corporate clients include Hugo Boss, The Perfume Shop, Virgin Gyms, Procter & Gamble, Bare Escentuals, U.S. legal giant Weil Gotshal & Manges, and global management consultants Accenture. 50,000 women have attended his live events and he has reached over 10 million online.

In this episode you will learn,