Good Inside with Dr. Becky

Exclusive Peek: A Good Inside Members' Q&A

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Aug 26, 2025
Join Jamie Pfeffer, a Senior Good Inside Coach, as she shares invaluable insights during a live Q&A with Dr. Becky. They tackle real-life parenting challenges, from managing children's anger to navigating triggers effectively. Jamie highlights the importance of understanding aggressive behaviors as expressions of deeper emotions and shares practical communication strategies. The discussion emphasizes the need for patience and collaboration among parents, providing a supportive framework for personal growth and community engagement.
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ADVICE

Boundaries With A Safe Alternative

  • Say the boundary and offer a safe alternative using the phrase: "I won't let you ___, you can ___."
  • Practice and repeat this script so kids learn the feeling is okay but the behavior is not.
INSIGHT

Behavior Reveals Missing Skills

  • Bad behavior usually signals a missing emotion-regulation skill, not moral failure.
  • Expect practice and time—age alone doesn't create the skill automatically.
ADVICE

Handle Parent Triggers Proactively

  • When you're triggered, name it and experiment with small acts to get your own needs met before blaming the child.
  • Tell your child in advance you may need a pause signal so you can step away briefly and return calm.
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