Relationship Advice 152: Create A Thriving Marriage
Jun 20, 2018
In this discussion, Dale Sadler, a licensed professional counselor and author specializing in marriage and parenting, shares invaluable insights on the four phases of marriage: thriving, working, detached, and conflictual. He highlights the importance of creating a 'couple culture' through shared experiences and offers practical tips for shifting out of challenging phases. Dale also emphasizes the power of proactive actions to enhance emotional connections, making this an enlightening listen for anyone looking to enrich their relationship.
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Seeking Help for Conflict
- Seek counseling if your marriage is in the conflictual phase.
- Find motivation to work on the marriage, even if it's for the children.
Fighting as a Sign of Love
- Fighting in a marriage can indicate remaining love, albeit hidden by frustration.
- We don't fight for things we don't care about; the fight signifies a desire to preserve something valuable.
Individual Initiative
- Taking the first step towards change in a relationship doesn't have to be mutual.
- One partner can initiate the process, empowering themselves and potentially influencing the other.
