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We Can Do Hard Things

263. Healing from Emotionally Immature Parents with Lindsay C. Gibson

Dec 5, 2023
Clinical psychologist and author Lindsay C. Gibson discusses emotionally immature people (EIPs) and the effects of growing up with emotionally immature parents. She explores the characteristics of EIPs, their impact on relationships, and how being raised by emotionally immature parents can lead to internal struggles. Lindsay emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and self-identification for healing.
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Quick takeaways

  • Emotionally immature people prioritize their own needs and lack empathy, causing drain and exhaustion for those around them.
  • Adult children of emotionally immature parents may become over-mature, feeling responsible for meeting their parents' needs and blaming themselves for relationship issues.

Deep dives

Characteristics of Emotionally Immature People

Emotionally immature people tend to have ego-centrism, fear of emotional intimacy, poor self-reflection, and lack of empathy. They prioritize their own needs and engage in superficial interactions. These individuals struggle with self-reflection and fail to empathize with others. They often rely on control and moral judgment to ensure their needs are met, which can be draining for those around them.

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