755 - Aaron Smith on Repairing A Sexless Marriage, Building A Marriage After God, and Why The Enemy Targets Our Purity

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Jul 26, 2024

Aaron Smith, a devoted husband, father, pastor, and bestselling author, discusses his journey from battling pornography and a sexless marriage to co-founding an online marriage ministry with his wife, Jennifer. They dive into the spiritual and physical healing necessary for overcoming intimacy challenges and the impact of candid communication. Aaron emphasizes that marriage itself is a ministry, reflecting faith and purpose, while providing insights on nurturing intimacy through prayer and overcoming modern struggles in relationships.

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ANECDOTE

Changing Hearts on Children

Aaron and Jennifer initially didn't want children due to sexual struggles and resentment.
God changed their hearts, leading them to have five children, each one a step of faith.

INSIGHT

Spiritual Roots of Physical Issues

Physical symptoms in marriage, like pain during sex, can have spiritual roots.
Unresolved sin and selfishness can manifest as physical or emotional challenges.

ADVICE

The Power of Marital Intimacy

Remind your spouse that they are the only one who can fulfill your sexual needs.
Recognize the power of saying no to intimacy and the potential for hurt.

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Aaron Smith joins us to share his profound journey from struggling with pornography and a sexless marriage to establishing a ministry that champions marital unity and purity. His story is a testament to God's redemptive power, offering hope and actionable insights for men seeking to rebuild their relationships and walk in faith.

Aaron is a devoted husband, father, pastor, and bestselling author, and has dedicated his life to strengthening marriages and leading people to Christ. Co-founding an online marriage ministry with his wife Jennifer, they share grace and biblical wisdom through social media channels, impacting hundreds of thousands.

Now a pastor of a thriving home church in Central Oregon, Aaron's passion lies in fostering a revolutionary revival in husbands' hearts, rooted in his unwavering belief in the transformative power of God's Word.

In this episode, we discuss:

[00:00] Introduction to Aaron and the episode

[04:40] Working together in business and ministry as a husband and wife team

[08:05] The journey from a challenging start to embracing parenthood and finding God's purpose in marriage

[10:10] The pivotal role of spiritual and physical healing in overcoming sexual challenges and pornography addiction

[14:40] Struggling through periods when sex is painful for your wife and you're turning to unhealthy coping mechanisms

[17:08] The importance of sexual intimacy within marriage and the biblical perspective on mutual consent and desire

[26:05] Unpacking the concept of "Marriage After God" and the significance of viewing marriage as a ministry

[37:41] Practical advice for men wanting to lead their families spiritually and embrace their ministry within their marriage

[44:01] What truly heals us in pornography addiction

[52:09] The Marriage Gift 365-day devotional

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Marriage After God

Marriage After God Podcast

The Marriage Gift: 365 Prayers for Our Marriage

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