Your Refractory Period Can Help You Be Empathic To Your Wife
Jan 23, 2023
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Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://anchor.fm/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes; the most recent one discusses how women often assert themselves against arrogant/condescending husbands by losing attraction to them!
Some guys say things like, "My wife and I only have sex a few times a month and she doesn't want it so it feels mechanical." They want her to somehow fix her drive as though they themselves don't have hormonal and biological constraints around their own drive! An interaction on my Facebook page about order of operations in sex made me realize this could be a very useful analogy for men (and for wives who want to explain their feelings better). Listen and learn!