Improving communication and conversation skills is crucial when pursuing older women for dating.
Setting clear boundaries and being specific in communication can help navigate mixed signals and breadcrumbing in modern dating.
Deep dives
Finding Love After Divorce
Mary, a divorced single mom, expresses frustration with finding men in her age group who want a committed relationship. She shares an experience of being ghosted by a man she had been dating for three months. Dr. Emily encourages Mary to let go of limiting beliefs and negative thoughts, suggesting she focus on manifesting her ideal partner. She advises Mary to get specific about what she wants in a partner and to actively create opportunities to meet new people outside of her comfort zone.
Dating Older Women
Tommy, a 32-year-old man, seeks advice on how to approach older women for dating. Dr. Emily tells him that finding a partner, regardless of age, requires open communication and striking up a conversation. She advises Tommy to be clear about his intentions and reminds him that dating is a practice that involves connecting with others and building relationships.
Overcoming Fear of Getting Hurt
Tiana, a single woman who has been hesitant to date after a heartbreak, shares her fear of getting hurt again. Dr. Emily recommends steps to face her fear, including focusing on self-love, getting clear on her needs and desires in a relationship, and gradually putting herself out there by going on coffee or video dates. She reassures Tiana that facing her fear will ultimately strengthen her and increase her chances of finding a fulfilling relationship.
Understanding Mixed Signals and Ghosting
Mark, a man in his 40s, expresses confusion and frustration with the mixed signals he receives from women he dates. Dr. Emily advises him to be more specific in his communication and make clear plans with potential partners. She emphasizes that it's important for Mark to set boundaries and not settle for inconsistent or breadcrumbing behavior. Dr. Emily recommends practicing self-love and continuing to put himself out there, while remembering that dating is a learning experience.
It can be difficult to meet new people and cultivate relationships, especially when looking for romantic partners. But don’t let that hold you back from trying: you might just need a new strategy. On today’s show, I take your calls on modern dating and how to solve the problems you’re running into. Let’s say you want to date an older woman but don’t have confidence in your communication - how do you improve your conversation game? When you’ve been single for years and fear rejection, how do you break out of romantic stagnation? Or what about breadcrumbing: when someone gives you just enough to keep you interested without outright ghosting you. How can you directly communicate without coming off as pushy? Finally, what are the signs of love bombing? One caller asks me if that’s what’s happening to her. Spoiler: yep.
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