Who's Ready For College? A Conversation With Bill Stixrud About a Mother's Concern
Jun 27, 2023
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Dr. William Stixrud, an expert in neuroscience and education, discusses ADHD, anxiety in teens, college readiness, and the impact of parental involvement on children's success. Emphasizing empathy, communication, and managing stress for a smoother transition to adulthood.
Parents should focus on mentoring and guiding teenagers with ADHD instead of exerting control.
Empowering students with self-management skills, especially in technology use, is crucial for college readiness.
Deep dives
Challenges of Transitioning to College for Students with ADHD
Transitioning from high school to college can be challenging for teenagers with ADHD, as highlighted in the podcast. Parents often face concerns about their child's readiness and ability to manage responsibilities. One parent shared worries about her 17-year-old son who struggles with ADHD and excessive screen time, leading to missed assignments and late submissions. The parent debated whether to disclose the ADHD diagnosis to the college counselor, reflecting common dilemmas parents face in supporting their teenagers' academic journey.
Parenting Approach for Adolescents with ADHD
The podcast emphasizes the importance of adopting a consultative parenting approach for adolescents with ADHD. Rather than exerting control or nagging, parents are encouraged to act as mentors and allies, guiding their children to independently solve problems and take responsibility for their actions. Establishing empathy and validation with the teenager is crucial in building a supportive and understanding relationship, fostering openness and trust between parent and child.
Empowering Students with Self-Management Skills
Empowering students with self-management skills, particularly in handling technology usage, emerges as a key theme in the podcast. Encouraging teenagers to develop time management and organizational abilities, along with a balanced approach to technology, aids in their college readiness. Parents are advised to shift the focus from controlling screen time to guiding responsible technology use, promoting autonomy and decision-making skills in preparation for the transition to college.
Focus on Building Positive Relationships and Trust
The podcast underscores the significance of building positive relationships and trust between parents and teenagers, especially during the critical period of transitioning to college. By adopting a supportive and non-anxious presence, parents can strengthen their connection with their children, fostering an environment of mutual understanding and collaboration. Prioritizing empathy, communication, and validation can enhance the parent-child relationship and facilitate effective guidance and support.
Welcome to another exciting episode of our podcast, where I had an enlightening conversation with Dr. William Stixrud. We explore the fascinating world of neuroscience, education, and how stress affects learning. You won't want to miss this!
[2:56] ADHD and anxiety in teens. [5:20] Taking the long view. [8:59] Three questions to ask yourself about your child. [11:24] College isn’t an entitlement. [15:21] Where do you have some leverage? [17:01] The language of silence in social media. [20:44] How we connect with our kids. [24:51] The importance of a non anxious presence.
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If you have a high school aged student and would like to talk about putting a tutoring or college plan together, reach out to Ned's company, PrepMatters at www.prepmatters.com
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