The Dr. John Delony Show

My Son’s Girlfriend Is 2 Years Younger Than Me

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May 30, 2025
A mother grapples with her son's relationship with an older woman, raising questions about age gaps and family dynamics. A wife seeks advice on healthy communication with her husband, highlighting the importance of emotional well-being in marriage. A kidney donor shares their emotional struggle after not hearing from the recipient, exploring the need for closure and self-validation. The conversation delves into the complexities of kindness and vulnerability, emphasizing that altruism can sometimes come with unexpected emotional baggage.
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ADVICE

Use Financial Leverage to Parent

  • Stop funding your adult child's life if you disapprove of their choices.
  • Let them face real adult consequences to motivate better decisions and use financial leverage wisely.
ADVICE

Regulate Emotions in Discussions

  • Commit to emotional self-regulation during tough talks.
  • Take breaks if triggered but return to conversations to solve real problems.
ADVICE

Use "I Statements" to Communicate

  • Use "I statements" to express feelings without blaming.
  • Communicate desires clearly and vulnerably to rebuild relationships effectively.
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