Start Your Engines Ep. 1: Understanding Female Sexuality
Sep 26, 2019
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An episode focused on helping men understand female sexuality in Christian marriages. Topics include misconceptions about female sexuality, factors that attract women to men, understanding women's holistic view of sex, the importance of arousal and adaptability, and recommendations for relationship resources.
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Quick takeaways
Understanding women's sexuality requires recognizing the differences between male and female libidos and the importance of emotional and spiritual intimacy.
Creating a safe and secure environment for women is crucial, involving respect, open communication, emotional support, and attentiveness to their desires and boundaries.
Deep dives
Understanding Women's Perspectives on Sex and Marriage
In this inaugural episode of the men's podcast, the hosts discuss the importance of understanding women's perspectives on sex and marriage. They highlight the common issues that men face, such as their wives not wanting to have sex, and emphasize the need to create a safe and intimate environment for women. The hosts stress the importance of recognizing that women's libido works differently from men's and that arousal for women often kicks in after physical intimacy begins. They also discuss how women's sexuality is often connected to emotional and spiritual intimacy. The hosts encourage open communication and exploration to build a stronger and more fulfilling sexual relationship.
Creating a Safe and Intimate Environment
The hosts emphasize the significance of making women feel safe and secure, both emotionally and physically, in order to foster a healthy sexual relationship. They discuss the negative impact of pressuring or threatening behavior and encourage husbands to be respectful, responsive, and understanding of their wives' needs and concerns. The hosts emphasize the importance of providing emotional support and creating a safe space for communication and intimacy. They highlight the need for husbands to engage in conversations about sex and understand their wives' boundaries and desires.
Understanding Women's Arousal and Pleasure
The hosts delve into the topic of women's arousal and pleasure, highlighting the differences between men and women in this regard. They emphasize the significance of aiming for arousal rather than solely focusing on orgasm for women. The hosts suggest that husbands should be attentive to their wives' responses and listen to their bodies and emotional cues. They encourage husbands to be open to experimentation and discovering what brings pleasure to their wives. The hosts stress the importance of maintaining ongoing communication and adapting to the changing needs and preferences of women.
Conclusion and Additional Resources
The hosts conclude the episode by underscoring the importance of maintaining a strong sexual relationship and encouraging couples to talk openly about sex. They highlight the value of resources such as books and apps to aid in enhancing intimacy and understanding each other's needs. The hosts provide links to additional resources and invite listeners to sign up for the email list for regular updates and helpful content on sex and marriage.
I have had many women asking me to do a podcast for men so they can get their husbands to listen and understand women better. So, starting this week, the last Thursday of each month will be a men's episode called "Start Your Engines." Ladies are of course still welcome to listen in, as it's still relevant for you, but I am speaking more directly to the men here. We start off our first episode giving an overview of the often overlooked differences between male and female sexuality! I recommend you check out this great app, "Get Your Marriage On" You can also check out my book, "31 Days to Great Sex" And as always, check out the podcast extras on my blog!