Bare Marriage Start Your Engines Ep. 1: Understanding Female Sexuality
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Sep 26, 2019 An episode focused on helping men understand female sexuality in Christian marriages. Topics include misconceptions about female sexuality, factors that attract women to men, understanding women's holistic view of sex, the importance of arousal and adaptability, and recommendations for relationship resources.
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Libido Often Starts Differently For Women
- Men and women are both sexual but approach libido differently, so male arousal-before-initiation is not the only norm.
- Expecting women to be instantly 'in the mood' misunderstands typical female sexual response.
Be Less Goal-Focused Physically
- Try slower, less goal-focused physical intimacy with your wife instead of treating sex as a target to hit.
- Use gentle touching and connection to let her warm up over time rather than pressuring immediate results.
Microwave vs Slow Cooker Arousal
- A common analogy describes men as microwaves and women as slow cookers to show different arousal speeds.
- Women often take longer to 'heat up' but sustain intimacy differently once aroused.