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Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage & Parenting
2273: Why "For Better or Worse" is a Fatal Vow by Dr. Kelly Flanagan on Marriage Advice
Aug 11, 2024
13:20
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Dr. Kelly Flanagan, a marriage expert, explores the implications of the vow "for better or worse" and how it can actually weaken commitment in marriage. He emphasizes that true commitment requires ongoing, intentional effort rather than a simple promise made at the altar. Highlighting the need for couples to approach their marriage as a dedicated project, he discusses how continuous investment can empower relationships. Flanagan also suggests that facing challenges together can lead to personal growth and strengthen the marital bond.
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- The vow 'for better or worse' can create complacency, leading couples to neglect the ongoing effort required for a successful marriage.
- Viewing marriage as a discipline akin to a business initiative encourages couples to actively nurture their relationship for long-term satisfaction.
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The Illusion of Commitment in Marriage
The vow 'for better or worse' symbolizes an absolute commitment, yet it can also set the stage for complacency in marriages. Couples often enter into this promise with a misplaced sense of security, believing that it shields them from adversity. This mindset may lead to a lack of genuine effort, as they treat their commitments as guarantees rather than active responsibilities. Ultimately, this illusion can contribute to the staggering divorce rates, as couples may fail to navigate marital challenges, viewing their vows as a one-time declaration instead of an ongoing practice.
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