Good Inside with Dr. Becky

What Boys and Dads Really Need with Richard Reeves

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Jun 10, 2025
In this discussion, Richard Reeves, a scholar and author focused on boys and masculinity, joins Dr. Becky to tackle the evolving roles of fathers and the unique hurdles boys face today. They explore how traditional masculinity impacts boys' education and emotional growth, emphasizing the need for tailored support. Reeves spotlights the pivotal role fathers play in emotional development and encourages dads to engage more actively in parenting. The conversation champions the shift towards understanding boys’ distinct needs for a brighter future for both kids and parents.
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INSIGHT

Developmental Gap in Boys' Education

  • Boys generally lag girls in early language and self-regulation skills, creating a developmental gap lasting through school years.
  • Schools unintentionally favor a female developmental norm, often treating boys as if they were malfunctioning girls.
ANECDOTE

Imaginary Sister Comparison

  • Richard Reeves reveals comparing his sons to an imaginary sister highlighted boys' slower development in organizational and self-regulation skills.
  • Recognizing this gap helps parents understand boys need more patience and support in early childhood.
ADVICE

Remove Blame, Show Patience

  • Approach boys' challenges with curiosity and generosity instead of blame or fault.
  • Avoid reacting with shame or frustration, and instead, seek understanding of developmental differences.
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