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Unhooked: Breaking Porn Addiction Podcast

66. James Oliver - The Men's Coach Tackling Shame and Self-Doubt; Exploring the Relationship to Self & Others

Jan 8, 2024
Explore profound topics like shame, self-doubt and addiction with James Oliver, a self-leadership coach. Discover strategies to overcome shame, break the cycle of self-abuse and understand the connection between pornography and relationships. Learn about the importance of self-awareness, vulnerability, and healing shame through Internal Family Systems. Dive into personal experiences of pornography addiction and the benefits of celibacy and self-pleasure practice. Embrace sexuality without shame for a stronger connection with oneself.
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  • Shame hides within individuals and influences their perception of themselves, but by recognizing it and developing a compassionate relationship with oneself, individuals can break free from its destructive influence.
  • Pornography can create unrealistic expectations and objectify individuals, leading to dependency and a constant search for novelty; taking space from porn allows for observation of its effects and breaking free from its influence.

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James Oliver's Work as a Self-Leadership Coach

James Oliver is a self-leadership coach who helps men overcome resistance, self-doubt, and shame in order to live their lives to the fullest potential. He works with men one-on-one and also leads a men's group called One Brotherhood. James has recently launched a podcast called The Boys Toilet, which aims to engage men in important conversations about topics like shame that they may shy away from. Through his coaching work and personal experiences, James offers support to men in healing their shame and finding their power.

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