Codependent Doctor 45: Emotional Neglect: The Hidden Wound Behind Codependency
If you’ve always been “the strong one,” this episode on emotional neglect may explain why relationships still feel hard.
Emotional neglect isn’t about what happened, but what didn’t.
- Your needs were likely invisible
- You learned to be low-maintenance to feel loved
- You felt “too much” for having emotions
This early conditioning creates:
- Codependency
- People-pleasing
- Attraction to emotionally unavailable partners
At the root is a quiet belief: “If I had just been better, they would have loved me.”
Healing begins when you stop trying to be chosen—and start choosing yourself.
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