Mindset Matters - Episode #176 - Your Ego is Not Your Enemy!

In this thought-provoking episode of Mindset Matters, Patrick and Steffany take a deep dive into the concept of ego—its role in our lives, relationships, and personal growth. Inspired by Ryan Holiday’s Ego is the Enemy, they challenge the notion that ego is something to be eliminated, instead framing it as both a protector and a potential roadblock.

Through engaging metaphors and real-life experiences, Patrick and Steffany compare ego to a suit of armor—offering protection when needed but also risking isolation if never removed. They discuss how ego influences our self-identity, drives ambition, and at times, holds us back through fear, comparison, and the need for validation.

Key insights from this episode include:
✅ How ego can fuel resilience and confidence—but also limit personal growth.
✅ The difference between healthy self-esteem (which seeks truth) and ego (which seeks validation).
✅ Why the most effective leaders have a flexible ego—assertive yet open to feedback.
✅ The impact of ego in business, sports, and personal relationships.
✅ How to recognize when your ego is serving you—or keeping you small.

Patrick shares his personal experience of stepping into new leadership roles, confronting discomfort, and overcoming ego-driven doubts. Steffany explores the challenge of detaching from relationships that no longer align, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness in navigating growth and change.

This episode will leave you reflecting on the question: Is your ego working for you, or against you? Tune in for actionable strategies to harness your ego’s power and transform it into a tool for success.

🎧 Listen now and start making your ego your Amigo!