Coming Out Late Ep 44: Coming Out Late & Your Sexual Attraction, Energy and Desire!
In this episode, Robin invites Samantha Fox back to her Show. Samantha is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist AND Lesbian Curiosity Coach. Today, they talk about the dynamic flow of our sexual attraction and desires…and SO much more!
In this episode, you will learn…
- What IS “dynamic flow”?
- How does dynamic flow affect my sexual attraction and desires?
- What is YOUR sexual energy? And why is sexual energy important?
- What is a stone-top? A stone-bottom? A switchy? And why is it important to know what YOU are?
- What it means to pick the best ‘external partner’ versus the best ‘internal partner’.
- How does ‘compulsory heterosexuality’ affect how we feel about our own sexual energy? What does society teach us to think and feel?
- That there really are lots of ways to be a sexual human.
- To think about, “...What am I attracted to? Androgynous women? Women with masc-energy? Women with fem-energy? Something in between?”
- Why “vulnerability” is vital to great a great flow of sexual energy between you and your partner.
- Why communicating about your sexual desires with your partner is critical to a healthy sex life.
- That sexual energy and sexual desire shouldn’t be “heavy” topics; have fun, play, experiment and explore these sides of you.
- The importance of doing the work on ourselves regarding “internalized homophobia”!
- Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation for all the time and love and energy she pours into our Community. Any and all donations are deeply, deeply appreciated!! Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass
Links to resources:
SAMANTHA FOX:
Website: https://www.curiousquestioningandcomingout.com
Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lesbiancuriositycoach
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lesbiancuriositycoach/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCugZWOUuPKEtdXQndioSbYQ
COMING OUT LATE FB GROUP:
Join our private FB Group: Coming Out Late Community at: www.facebook.com/groups/comingoutlatecommunity/
COMING OUT LATE SUPPORT GROUPS:
Want to come to a nighttime WOMEN LOVING WOMEN support group? Or, a daytime WOMEN HELPING WOMEN support group? Email me a request for the Zoom ID & PW’s: Comingoutlater@gmail.com
Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider 'buying me a coffee' as a sign of appreciation. Any and all donations are deeply, deeply appreciated!! Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass
STAY TUNED: A NEW “COMING OUT LATE COMMUNITY”
Robin is launching a new, safe ‘n secure Community for all women who are, or have, Come Out Late in life. (It will likely be called The Coming Out Late Community). This new paid membership community will be officially launching with approximately 12-15 Founding Firefly Members in August, and for Early Birds at the end of the summer. The Coming Out Late Community will be available to ALL Coming Out Late Women by early September.