Before Breakfast Leave criticism to the critics
Oct 21, 2025
Explore the concept of constructive versus casual criticism and its impact on community. Discover why it's often unnecessary to give unsolicited feedback and how it can be harmful. Learn a personal rule about refraining from publicly criticizing creatives and how competition can undermine collaboration. Uncover practical ways to respond to critiques politely and the benefits of staying above negative discussions for a solid reputation.
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Resist Unsolicited Criticism
- Avoid offering unsolicited criticism about others' work or public endeavors.
- If you're not asked for help, focus on building people up instead of tearing them down.
When Critique Is Constructive
- Thoughtful, formal criticism has value in reviews and political commentary.
- Such criticism helps audiences decide and can raise artists' or leaders' profiles when done well.
Rule From An Author And A Public Example
- Ingrid Fattel Lee adopted a personal rule to never speak negatively about other creatives unless they're causing harm.
- Laura recounts Pamela Anderson declining to criticize Meghan Markle's show as an example of that restraint.
