PsycHacks Episode 6: Don't play dress-up
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Jul 17, 2021 Explore how fantasy narratives can derail important life decisions in this insightful discussion. It delves into the concept of 'playing dress-up' in relationships, particularly focusing on young men's struggles with self-awareness. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding your true desires to make authentic choices in love and life. Tune in for a thought-provoking look at how clarity and self-knowledge can empower decision-making.
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Playing Dress-Up Defined
- Dr. Orion Tarabin calls 'playing dress-up' using fantasy narratives when you lack clarity.
- He says it springs from poor self-knowledge.
Imagined Power-Couple Life
- He imagines adapting to a high-powered partner by rearranging chores and travel.
- Dr. Orion Tarabin warns such fantasies gloss over realities of daily life.
Country-Road Fantasy Example
- He pictures rural life like learning gun use and hay bales to fit a partner.
- Dr. Orion Tarabin notes these imagined identities often don't match real habits.