#7: Redefining Success: Inside The Mind Of 31-Year-Old Retiree Ashish Kumar

May 21, 2024

Former top PSLE scorer turned 31-year-old retiree, Ashish Kumar, shares his unconventional perspectives on life and work. Topics include his formative years studying overseas, challenges in the civil service, early retirement, societal expectations, personal freedom, and living authentically. Prepare to be inspired, provoked, and enlightened on this thought-provoking journey.

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Intro

00:00 • 2min

Family Dynamics and Parenting Influence on Personality and Success

01:57 • 4min

Impactful Journey of Studying Abroad and Career Choices

05:38 • 9min

Exploring Values and Autonomy in the Workplace

14:26 • 2min

Privilege and Early Retirement

16:01 • 9min

Reflections on Early Retirement and Societal Expectations

24:50 • 17min

Surprising Aspects of Retirement and Self-Discovery

41:32 • 2min

Reflecting on Career Decisions and Prioritizing Exercise

43:45 • 5min

Embark on a thought-provoking journey as we delve into the life and philosophy of Ashish Kumar, a former top PSLE scorer turned 31-year-old retiree. In this captivating episode, we navigate through a series of insightful topics, each unveiling a different facet of Ashish's unconventional perspectives. From his formative years and the influence of studying overseas to his experiences as a civil servant in Singapore, we explore the factors that shaped Ashish's unique perspective on life and work. Along the way, we confront pressing questions about employment, early retirement, and the pursuit of personal freedom in a society bound by expectations. Join me as we dissect the essence of Ashish Kumar, examining the values and principles that define his existence beyond the confines of traditional success. With each chapter, we peel back the layers of conventional wisdom, challenging misconceptions and igniting introspection. As we navigate through Ashish's story, we are reminded of the importance of living authentically and aligning our actions with our deepest values. Prepare to be inspired, provoked, and enlightened as we embark on this journey of exploration with Ashish Kumar. Follow Rachel here: https://www.instagram.com/ms_rach/ Follow Ashish Kumar here: https://youtube.com/@ashishxiangyikumar?si=uW9XwGaMnwr0q_lN 00:00 Introduction 00:22 Getting to know Ashish Kumar 03:04 The impact of his upbringing 05:39 The influence of studying overseas 09:28 Ashish's Experience as a Singaporean Bureaucrat 14:26 Addressing the challenges & limitations of employment 16:00 Early retirement: A privilege, a choice, or both? 19:11 Navigating the divide between work and personal Life 22:13 What defines Ashish Kumar: Unpacking identity and values 24:50 Pursuing freedom & challenging societal expectations 30:47 Systemic changes towards a flexible work culture 33:31 The dilemma of commitment in pursuit of freedom 34:49 Misconceptions of early retirement 37:03 Reflections on a meaningful life 40:33 The Deathbed Exercise 41:33 Surprising insights after early retirement 45:58 Final thoughts