Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 514 - My Metamour is Convinced I Hate Her. Help! Listener Q&A
Jan 28, 2025
Delve into the complexities of polyamory and metamour relationships, where the importance of open communication and self-awareness takes center stage. Discover how to navigate emotional challenges without falling into competition or hierarchy. Lighthearted reflections on dating and personal stories add warmth to the discussion, while insights on setting boundaries and fostering healthier interactions offer valuable guidance. Embrace the fluidity of connections and the journey of healing and growth within modern relationships.
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Handling Mononormative Thoughts
- Explore what "competing" means with your partner and what connecting means to you.
- Discuss milestones and desires together, focusing on your relationship, not the metamour.
NRE and Monogamy Hangover
- NRE amplifies the pain of not getting what you want, making monogamy hangovers worse.
- Acknowledge these are chemical reactions, not necessarily signs to pursue the relationship further.
Focus on Your Relationship
- Shift focus from competing with a metamour to building your own unique relationship.
- Identify exciting possibilities and milestones with your partner.