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Bare Marriage

Start Your Engines Ep.6. Do All Men Lust?

Mar 26, 2020
Challenging traditional views on lust in the church, the podcast explores the difference between attraction and lust. They discuss a controversial story and creepy anecdote and promote the importance of viewing people as whole individuals. They also talk about pleasuring your wife, addressing PMS, and the reality of PMS.
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Quick takeaways

  • Lust should be differentiated from attraction, emphasizing the dignity and worth of women.
  • Prioritizing a partner's pleasure and avoiding missed opportunities enhances the sexual experience for both partners.

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Understanding and Redefining Lust

Lust is often misunderstood and has been approached in a hurtful way by the Evangelical Church. The traditional view that all men struggle with lust can lead to guilt and shame. It is important to differentiate between attraction and lust. Attraction is a natural biological response, whereas lust involves deliberate objectification and disrespectful thoughts towards someone. Rather than focus on purity, it is more beneficial to consider the dignity and worth of women, treating them as whole people and image bearers of God.

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