Brett shares his experience crafting a fear retreat in the Utah desert. They discuss the transformative power of facing fear as a group, fear in spiritual development, teaching for personal enjoyment, and the impact of fear on teamwork. They also explore fear as it is passed on in group settings, developing compassion, and honoring personal boundaries.
Approaching fear with a sensual experience and enjoyment leads to personal growth, freedom, compassion, and groundedness in any aspect of life.
Participating in the retreat can help leaders develop self-awareness and foster greater compassion and understanding within their teams.
Deep dives
The Retreat: Exploring Fear in a Wilderness Setting
The podcast episode explores a retreat called Welcoming Fear, where participants engage in physically embodied experiences with fear. The retreat took place in a wilderness setting near Moab, Utah and included activities such as walking on a highline and jumping off a cliff. The main aim of the retreat was not to conquer fear, but to develop an enjoyment of the process of being with fear. Participants were encouraged to notice their body's responses, emotional systems, and thought processes amidst fear. The retreat facilitated the exploration of different fear patterns and responses, such as anger, determination, or a need for control. The intention was for participants to transition to a more grounded and regulated relationship with fear, leading to greater self-awareness and presence in their lives.
The Importance of Sensual Experience and Enjoyment of Fear
The podcast episode highlights the significance of approaching fear with a sensual experience and enjoyment, rather than seeking to conquer it. The host shares his personal journey of initially seeing fear as an oppressor to be overcome, only to realize that this approach led to accidents and slow personal growth. Instead, he emphasizes the importance of cultivating a loving and sensuous relationship with fear. This approach enables individuals to both wear fear on their sleeves and use it as a grounding force and guide for decision-making. The episode argues that welcoming fear and embracing its various flavors can lead to personal growth, freedom, compassion, and groundedness in any aspect of life.
Transforming Fear Patterns and Improved Leadership
The podcast episode explores how participating in the retreat can lead to transformation and growth in leadership. By becoming aware of their fear patterns, individuals can recognize how these patterns impact their role as leaders. For example, if someone tends to respond to fear with anger, this may lead to a negative work environment and hinder effective leadership. The retreat offers an opportunity for leaders to develop self-awareness and acknowledge their fears openly, thereby fostering greater compassion and understanding within the team. By embracing fear and approaching it with curiosity and vulnerability, leaders can create a work environment conducive to creativity, innovation, and genuine connection.
The Unique Experience of the First Retreat and Visions for the Future
The first retreat held by the host is described as a unique, intimate experience with profound impact. The small group size and the deep connection of the location and personal history contributed to its success. Moving forward, the host envisions longer retreats to allow for more integration and deeper work. The aim is to provide additional exercises and meditative questions during the activities to enhance the experience. Despite future iterations, the podcast emphasizes the gratitude for the journey that brought the host to this point, the influential teachers and mentors, and the deep love for facilitating the retreats. The transformative nature of the retreat and the profound effect it had on participants' lives is expressed with immense gratitude and joy.
Joe interviews Brett about his experience crafting and facilitating a high-flying retreat in the Utah desert and his lifelong journey of learning to embrace fear.