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Dynamics in Neurodiverse Relationships-Greg Fuqua

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Jan 20, 2026
Discover the intriguing dynamics in neurodiverse relationships as Greg Fuqua explores ADHD-autistic pairings and the magnetism of their complementary traits. Learn how stress amplifies neurodivergent characteristics, leading to unique emotional cycles like pursuer-avoidant dynamics. Greg emphasizes the importance of emotional reciprocity, effective communication, and boundary ownership. He also discusses the impact of unresolved family triggers in relationships and provides practical strategies for fostering understanding and connection.
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Polar Attraction And Amplified Traits

  • ADHD and autistic partners often present as polar opposites: externalized vs internalized processing.
  • This polarity creates magnetism but also predictable conflict when stress amplifies traits.
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Stress Amplifies Neurodivergent Traits

  • Stress and pressure amplify neurodivergent traits, pushing partners further apart.
  • Reducing stress creates safety and enables meeting in the middle.
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Different Emotional Languages

  • ADHDers use emotion as the primary connective tool while autistics use roles and practical support.
  • That mismatch leads to pursuer (ADHD) and avoidant (autistic) cycles.
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