Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda Episode 331: Over-Involved Parents
Aug 11, 2025
Delve into the delicate dance of establishing boundaries with parents as adulthood approaches. Discover humorous tales about award speeches and playful rivalries, showcasing camaraderie amidst personal growth. Explore the intricacies of dating multiple partners, highlighting the significance of honest communication. Most importantly, learn how to navigate the evolving dynamics of parental involvement, ensuring both respect and independence thrive in family relationships.
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Caller About Dating Two Women
- A college student asked if it was wrong to pursue two potential girlfriends at once.
- Hosts gave mixed, humorous responses and emphasized transparency and single-focused dating as common advice.
Set Clear, Specific Boundaries
- Have clear boundaries and communicate them kindly but firmly to your parent.
- Define specific rules (call days, unannounced visits) and ask if they agree to them.
Leave And Cleave Means Emotional Independence
- Leaving and cleaving means emotional independence, not strict physical separation.
- You can still live with parents, but adult roles and responsibilities should shift.