Julien Blanc | The Vault

How To Stop Being Needy And Insecure (CONFIDENCE HACK)

Feb 15, 2023
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INSIGHT

Neediness Is Perpetual 'More'

  • Neediness is a perpetual hunger that never feels satisfied and always demands more.
  • Chasing 'more' only amplifies the needy voice instead of calming it.
ANECDOTE

From Fantasies To Avoiding Action

  • Julien describes being a 'dream sexual' who fantasized about relationships instead of pursuing them.
  • He used emo music and fantasies as comfort while avoiding real-world action.
INSIGHT

Comfort Zone Traps Achievement

  • Self-sabotage is staying congruent with your comfort-zone identity rather than becoming the person you imagine.
  • Holding onto familiar pain keeps you from acting on real opportunities to change.
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