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How To Stop Being Needy And Insecure (CONFIDENCE HACK)

Julien Blanc | The Vault

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The Self-Generation of Lack

From the moment you're born, we create this split. That's self-generated lack. Why does this happen? Few reasons. As a child, can you survive on your own? Yes or no? No. You need someone external, parent, caretaker to take care of you. And number three, as a child, do you have a realistic view of the world? No. Not true, but it doesn't matter. If that's what you believe, you will feel survival, instinct, kick in. We start labeling different parts of ourselves as acceptable and unacceptable. In order to survive, some mommy doesn't abandon me. I'm never going to be loud again.

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