Highest Self Podcast®

639: Stop Looking For Love And Do This Instead with Brandon Collingsworth

Jan 27, 2026
Brandon Collingsworth, poet, teacher, and writer focused on love's transformative power. He talks about declaring love as a life mission. He explores the shift from head to heart, why self-love forms the foundation for relationships, and how changing your standards and initiation into adulthood reshapes attraction. Practical talk on setting energetic boundaries, meeting conscious partners, and rewiring relational patterns.
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INSIGHT

Love As A Life Mission

  • Brandon Collingsworth declared "love is my mission" after a breakup and says the universe tested him to teach what is not love.
  • He frames personal growth as the journey 18 inches from the head to the heart, requiring surrender and long-term inner work.
ADVICE

Build Self-Love Before Dating

  • Do the inner work first: cultivate self-love before seeking a partner because you can only attract what you are.
  • Create a sanctuary of self-worth and standards to invite people who complement, not complete, you.
ADVICE

Stand In Value And Standards

  • Treat yourself as valuable and set clear standards so others respect your space and energy.
  • Insert yourself into healthier environments to recalibrate your relational antenna and attract higher-vibration people.
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