Pink Kink

When Fantasy Goes Too Far - Episode 243

Oct 31, 2025
Dive into the chaotic world of fantasy and consent as the hosts discuss real-life violations at conventions. They tackle severe issues like groping, stalking, and flashing, emphasizing that fantasy doesn't excuse such behaviors. Insights on the stark differences in consent norms at kink versus fan events highlight the need for improved boundaries. With practical advice for creators and bystanders, this conversation champions a culture of respect and safety, urging listeners to actively foster healthier environments.
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First-Time Needle Withdrawal

  • Princess Rara describes doing needles at a dungeon and guiding a nervous nurse through the negotiation process.
  • A woman sat up on the table and then decided she couldn't go through with it, marking Rara's first in-session withdrawal.
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Groping And Stalking At Sinners & Stardust

  • Princess Rara recounts the Sinners & Stardust incident where a performer was groped so hard his body paint was smeared.
  • Someone also planted an AirTag on him to track his hotel, creating a stalking situation.
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Volunteer Flashing A Dildo In Elevators

  • Princess Rara describes a volunteer flashing a strap-on dildo in elevators and mimicking sexual behavior to strangers.
  • The behavior was labeled as unreal and unacceptable even in sexy-con settings.
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