Pink Kink

Exploring dungeon safety is more complex than just rules on the wall. Strong leadership and community culture are essential for a sense of security. Stories reveal how personal experiences shape feelings of safety in these spaces. Key discussions include the importance of dungeon monitors and proper training, which can be more effective than policies alone. The hosts also compare the safety perceptions between private homes and dungeons, while offering practical tips for attendees and organizers to enhance protection within the community.

We’re back with another round of Niche Kinks and this time we pulled inspiration straight from our episode on America’s Top Fetishes. These were the kinks people kept asking about, the ones we didn’t have time to unpack, and the ones that genuinely surprised us.Come hang out with us while we explore the weird, wonderful corners of kink and talk about why the niche stuff is usually the most interesting.Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order)Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discounthttps://love-blanket.com/?ref=PINKKINKPODCAST and use code PINKKINK10 for 10% off

Dive into the chaotic world of fantasy and consent as the hosts discuss real-life violations at conventions. They tackle severe issues like groping, stalking, and flashing, emphasizing that fantasy doesn't excuse such behaviors. Insights on the stark differences in consent norms at kink versus fan events highlight the need for improved boundaries. With practical advice for creators and bystanders, this conversation champions a culture of respect and safety, urging listeners to actively foster healthier environments.

“Submissive training” gets tossed around a lot in kink—but when Dominants use it as a control tactic or sales pitch, it stops being education and starts being manipulation. In this episode, Rara and Dara break down why Dominant-led training can be harmful, how predators exploit new subs who just want to “get it right,” and why coaching is teaching—so those offering it need to own that role responsibly.They also share healthier, collaborative ways to learn and grow in your dynamic. Because real training should build confidence, not dependence.Big shout out to our newest affiliate Love Blanket. Check them out at https://love-blanket.com/?ref=PINKKINKPODCAST and use code PINKKINK10 for 10% off your purchase. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.comAffiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discountVisit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Not all kink happens in public spaces—and that’s perfectly valid. While dungeons, play parties, and community events are one way to experience BDSM, many kinksters explore power exchange, sensation play, and ritual entirely in private. In this episode, we unpack the stigma that sometimes surrounds at-home kink and explore why public visibility isn’t the only way to be “real” in this lifestyle. Whether you're private by choice, circumstance, or necessity, we’re here to remind you: your kink counts too.

Explore the intriguing difference between romance novel fantasies and real-life kink. Discover common misrepresentations, like instant trust and skipped negotiations. The hosts break down how to safely translate fantasies into reality, emphasizing consent and communication. They discuss playful punishing and bratting, debunk myths around subspace, and the importance of aftercare. Gain insights on how to safely prepare for scenes and the significance of post-play debriefs. Plus, uncover author recommendations for more realistic BDSM portrayals.

Our birthday bash was one for the books! In this episode, we’re spilling all the details from our birthday scenes—what we set out to do, how we challenged ourselves, and the goals we crushed along the way. Expect plenty of laughter, some surprising moments, and maybe a few outrageous confessions. Because nothing says “happy birthday” like celebrating with a little (okay, a lot of) kink.Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.comAffiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discountVisit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

We’re joined by Alicia M. Walker and Arielle Kuperberg, authors of Bound by BDSM: Unexpected Lessons for Building a Happier Life. Their groundbreaking book dives into the ways BDSM can teach us about trust, communication, vulnerability, and joy — lessons that extend far beyond the dungeon.We talk with Alicia and Arielle about what inspired their research, the surprising truths they uncovered, and why mainstream conversations about kink so often miss the bigger picture. You’ll hear how BDSM practices can foster deeper intimacy, improve relationships, and even reshape how we approach everyday life.If you’ve ever wondered what kink can teach us about being human, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.Get the book on Amazon at https://a.co/d/fUktGBGConnect with Alicia at https://www.alicia-walker.com/Connect with Arielle at https://sites.google.com/site/arielletk/homeVisit us at pinkkinkpodcast.comAffiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discountVisit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

This episode is a deep dive into our personal journeys through the lifestyle. We’re answering 20 journaling prompts that explore how kink has shaped us, challenged us, and helped us grow.From scenes that changed the way we play to beliefs we had to unlearn, we’re reflecting on what it really means to become yourself through kink. Some lessons came through trial and error. Others through joy, community, and pushing our edges.If you're curious about what experience actually looks like over time, this one is honest, raw, and full of insight.Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.comAffiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discountVisit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Kink isn’t just about play — it’s stress relief, identity, and connection. But what happens when life throws up walls and you can’t engage the way you want? In this episode, we talk about the realities of dry spells, why they happen, and the emotional toll they can take. We’ll bust the myths that make people feel “less kinky” when they can’t play, and share creative coping strategies to keep your dynamic alive during times of stress, illness, family obligations, money struggles, or burnout. Because kink isn’t a tally of scenes — it’s who you are.Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.comAffiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discountVisit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!