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Finding a good Dominant isn’t about rushing into a dynamic or ignoring red flags because you want to submit. In this episode, we talk about why self-understanding matters, how desire can cloud judgment, and what core qualities actually make someone a safe, ethical Dominant.We discuss meeting people in the kink community, recognizing predators, using negotiation as a compatibility test, and why it’s okay if finding the right Dominant takes time. A practical, grounded conversation about consent, safety, and choosing power exchange that supports your well-being.Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order)Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discounthttps://love-blanket.com/?ref=PINKKINKPODCAST and use code PINKKINK10 for 10% off

This week, Dara and Rara are swapping notes from the road. From packed classrooms to late-night conversations, they talk about the conferences they attended, the classes they taught, and the moments that stuck with them long after the events ended. It’s part behind-the-scenes, part honest reflection on what teaching and learning in kink actually looks like, and part “wow, I didn’t expect that about myself.”If you’re curious about what really happens at kink conferences, how educators grow through the work they do, and why stepping into new spaces can change you, this episode is for you. Grab your favorite drink and come hang out with us. Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order)Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discounthttps://love-blanket.com/?ref=PINKKINKPODCAST and use code PINKKINK10 for 10% off

We’re talking about the things no one told us when we first joined the kink scene. The good, the complicated, and the stuff you usually only learn the hard way. From community and safety to frenzy, vetting, identity, and self-advocacy, this episode breaks down what we wish we had known so you can move through kink with more confidence and a lot less guesswork.Whether you’re brand new or realizing you learned some things sideways, this one’s worth a listen.Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order)Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discounthttps://love-blanket.com/?ref=PINKKINKPODCAST and use code PINKKINK10 for 10% off

This episode is our annual reality check. We’re looking back at last year’s New Year’s resolutions, being honest about what stuck, what didn’t, and what we maybe wildly overestimated. Some goals turned into real growth. Others turned into lessons. And yes, there was a little humble pie involved.Then we talk about how we’re approaching the year ahead. Not with pressure or perfection, but with intention, flexibility, and a better understanding of who we actually are in kink and life.Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order)Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discounthttps://love-blanket.com/?ref=PINKKINKPODCAST and use code PINKKINK10 for 10% off

Can a power exchange really work if you’ve never met in person? Short answer: yes. Longer answer? It depends on how it’s built.In this episode, we break down what online Dominant/submissive relationships actually look like, why people choose them, and what makes them healthy or harmful. We talk honestly about the benefits, the challenges, and the risks that don’t always get discussed until something goes wrong.This isn’t a fantasy version of online BDSM. It’s a real conversation about consent, communication, emotional safety, and intentional power exchange when touch isn’t an option.If you’ve ever wondered whether an online dynamic could work for you, or you’re already in one and want to do it better, this episode will give you clarity, language, and practical tools.

So many people try to label actions as Dominant or submissive based on how they look from the outside. But in real D/s dynamics, it isn’t the act that defines the role. It’s the intention and the power behind it. In this episode, we break down why the same behavior can mean something completely different depending on who’s driving it, and how understanding the why behind your play can build stronger, more confident dynamics.Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order)Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discounthttps://love-blanket.com/?ref=PINKKINKPODCAST and use code PINKKINK10 for 10% off

We’re diving back into the madhouse that is Reddit advice, where strangers ask wild kink questions and we do our best not to spit out our drinks while answering them. Expect giggles, good-hearted roast sessions, and the occasional “bless their heart” as we break down what’s actually good advice…and what belongs in the digital dumpster.Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order)Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discounthttps://love-blanket.com/?ref=PINKKINKPODCAST and use code PINKKINK10 for 10% off

It’s our annual Thanksgiving episode, and this year we’re taking a moment to slow down, reflect, and talk about what we’re truly grateful for. From the growth of our Pink Kink community to the personal lessons, connections, laughter, awkward moments, and meaningful conversations that shaped our year, we’re sharing it all. This one feels especially real and heartfelt, and we hope you’ll feel seen in it too.Grab something cozy, settle in, and join us as we say thank you for the people, experiences, and kinky joys that made this year unforgettable.Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order)Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discounthttps://love-blanket.com/?ref=PINKKINKPODCAST and use code PINKKINK10 for 10% off

Kink can do more than turn you on. It can help you calm your mind, process emotions, and feel grounded again. In this episode, we talk about how kink becomes a coping tool, why it works, and the difference between healing and avoiding.We cover both pain and non-pain ways kink helps with stress, connection, and emotional release, plus a few signs to watch for if play starts replacing real support.Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order)Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discounthttps://love-blanket.com/?ref=PINKKINKPODCAST and use code PINKKINK10 for 10% off

Exploring dungeon safety is more complex than just rules on the wall. Strong leadership and community culture are essential for a sense of security. Stories reveal how personal experiences shape feelings of safety in these spaces. Key discussions include the importance of dungeon monitors and proper training, which can be more effective than policies alone. The hosts also compare the safety perceptions between private homes and dungeons, while offering practical tips for attendees and organizers to enhance protection within the community.