Unity in Diversity, Empathic Wisdom / Christy Vines

In our American quest for a more perfect union, we often mistake unity for sameness. We mistake unity for conformity. But the functional unity of a system—seems to actually require diversity, distinction, and difference.

In this episode, Christy Vines (Founder/ CEO, Ideos Institute) reflects on the problem of division today; how we increasingly invest our identity in politics instead of faith or spirituality; humility and privilege; the definition of unity and the assumption of diversity in it; the centrality of empathy; and how to cultivate an empathic wisdom grounded in the life and witness of Christ.

The Ideos Institute is currently sponsoring 31 days of Unity leading up to the 2024 election. Visit thereunionproject.us or ideosinstitute.org/31-days-of-unity to learn how to participate.

About Christy Vines

Christy Vines is the founder, President and CEO of Ideos Institute where she leads the organization’s research on the burgeoning field of Empathic Intelligence and its application to the fields of conflict transformation, social cohesion, and social renewal.

Prior to founding Ideos Institute, she was the Senior Vice President for Global Initiatives and Strategy at the Institute for Global Engagement (IGE) where she served as the managing and coordinating lead for the development of strategic institutional partnerships and global initiatives in support of the IGE mission to encourage flourishing societies and stable states, and promote sustainable religious freedom, human rights and the rule of law globally. During her tenure at IGE she helped expand the organization’s Center for Women, Faith & Leadership which supports, equips and convenes religious women peacemakers around the globe.

Christy has held senior roles with the RAND Corporation, where she worked with the RAND Centers for Middle East Public Policy, Asia Pacific Public Policy, Global Risk and Security, and the Center for Justice, Infrastructure, and Environment, finally transitioning to interim project manager for the RAND African First Ladies Initiative (now located at the Bush Presidential Center). Christy also held the role of senior fellow at The American Security Project and served as an advisor to the Carter’s Center’s inaugural Forum on Women, Religion, Violence and Power.

Christy is a published writer, speaker, and the executive producer of the 2022 documentary film, "Dialogue Lab: America," a moving take on the current state of division and polarization in the U.S. She has appeared on podcasts like Comment Magazine’s “**Whole Person Revolution Podcast”, “**How Do We Fix It” and Bob Goff's “Dream Big Podcast”. She has published numerous articles and op-eds with news outlets and publications, including the **Washington Post, Christianity Today,** and Capital Commentary.

Christy received her Master's Degree in Public Administration from the Harvard Kennedy School. She attended both Stanford University and the University of CA, Riverside where she received her B.A. in Sociology and Qualitative Analysis. She currently resides in Pasadena, CA.

Show Notes

• Howard Thurman on Unity, Meditations of the Heart (Beacon Press: 1981), 120–121
• “Plotinus [205–270 CE] wrote, “If we are in unity with the Spirit, we are in unity with each other, and so we are all one.” (Plotinus, Enneads, VI.5.7.)
• Sign up for 31 Days of Unity https://www.ideosinstitute.org/31-days-of-unity
• (Re)Union Project and Ideos Institute
• Christy Vines’s experience with diversity and unity in her family: differences in faith, race, gender, sexuality, and religion
• How Christy Vines came to faith
• The problem of division
• How neuroscience illuminates scripture and offers insight into empathic wisdom
• “There are so many ways to love God.” (David Dark)
• How we invest our identity in politics instead of religion
• Moral absolutism vs moral relativism
• Abdicating our faith identity for a political identity
• Technology and relationships
• “Loving God differently”
• “In the cosmic Christ, you have all of the space you need for the kind of diversity in unity that you're talking about.”
• “It's the expectation that in order to work together, we really do have to look exactly the same, that we have to think the same things. That's the only way to collaborate. So until we can get past those of disagreements, there's just no way to work across the aisle. And that is disastrous to the concept of a democracy and the concept of the church.“
• “There’s so many ways to be an American. There’s so many ways to be human.”
• Humility and privilege
• “There is something about desperation and need that brings, that illuminates God's beauty, majesty, and importance in such a powerful way that I think so many of us that are born into plenty will never experience until the other side of heaven.”
• The definition of unity: grounded in empathy
• “Unity is about finding ways to be the body of Christ with all of our diversity and difference and saying that with humility, Here is my perspective. Here's how I understand God. Here's how I live out my faith. Here's what that might mean culturally or politically and all of the other ways we express our faith. And to be unified means maybe we can all be moving in the same direction on different paths, coming at it from different directions, but recognizing we're all trying to reach the same goal. And that maybe in that shared experience, And that rubbing against one another is, our pastor used to say, heavenly sandpaper, refining one another. We may never be on the exact same path, But over time, you find that we get closer and closer together as we share our lives with one another and we influence each other from a position of trust and care. And that can only be done when we actually show up recognizing with humility that we can learn and benefit from others.”
• Empathy and how to build it
• Empathic Intelligence Dr. Rosalind Arnold (University of Tasmania)
• Empathic intelligence (empathic wisdom) is the lived experience of Jesus
• Jesus’s empathy
• “Most of the time we take our own understanding of Jesus and try to impose that on somebody without ever knowing their story.”
• “What is it like to be you?”
• “Why is this so hard to do?”
• Jesus and the woman at the well
• Asking questions and listening
• Empathy is contagious
• Vulnerability, openness, and a space of relational trust
• (Re)Union Project for Churches—Building unity in the church across lines of difference
• thereunionproject.us
• ideosinstitute.org

Production Notes

• This podcast featured Christy Vines
• Edited and Produced by Evan Rosa
• Hosted by Evan Rosa
• Production Assistance by Alexa Rollow, Emily Brookfield, Kacie Barrett, and Zoë Halaban
• A Production of the Yale Center for Faith & Culture at Yale Divinity School https://faith.yale.edu/about
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