The Art of Manliness How Long Does It Take to Make Friends (And How Does That Process Work, Anyway)?
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Jan 24, 2022 Jeffrey Hall, a communication studies professor, dives into the intriguing world of friendship dynamics. He reveals how long it actually takes to turn an acquaintance into a close friend and discusses the three levels of friendships based on emotional closeness. Time alone isn't enough; shared expectations and personality traits play crucial roles too. He explores how gender influences friendship expectations and highlights the importance of prioritizing these connections as adults. Learn why true friendships can endure despite time and distance.
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Friendship Hierarchy
- Not all friends are equal; there's a hierarchy of closeness.
- Sociologists categorize friends as best friends, friends, and casual friends.
Clicking with Potential Friends
- Shared laughter and understanding jokes are early signs of friend potential.
- Mutual liking, recognized through verbal and nonverbal cues, is key.
Turning Acquaintances into Friends
- To move from acquaintance to friend, change your routines to spend more time with them.
- Look for opportunities at work or shared activities to increase interaction.