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Dating Titles: Exclusive vs Boyfriend

Nov 7, 2025
Join Jordana and Jared as they dive into quirky Thanksgiving traditions and debate the joys of cold versus warm holiday weather. They hilariously dissect the differences between being exclusive and a boyfriend while sharing relatable stories about ghosting and revenge fantasies. You'll hear about the nuances of dating dynamics, including whether intimacy should precede commitment. With standout recommendations like Skims pajamas and a comedic take on navigating modern relationships, it’s all about keeping love lighthearted and fun.
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ANECDOTE

Contrasting Thanksgiving Upbringings

  • Jared and Jordana contrast childhood Thanksgivings: Jared's was traditional and picture-perfect while Jordana's was fragmented and chaotic.
  • They use these memories to explain how holidays shape expectations about what 'normal' family celebrations feel like.
ANECDOTE

Publicly Calling Out A Ghoster

  • A woman recounts confronting a ghoster by loudly telling bar friends he 'ghosted' her while he sat nearby and left embarrassed after 20 minutes.
  • Jordana admits it was petty but defends the emotional satisfaction it provided in the moment.
ADVICE

Choose Mature Confrontation For Closure

  • Jared advises confronting someone maturely rather than seeking petty revenge to achieve a better outcome and possible closure.
  • He suggests a direct apology or honest acknowledgement can make the ghoster feel remorse and change behavior.
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