The Kink Consultant Q&A With My Dom Part 2: What Makes a Good Dom?
"The number one thing about being a Dom is you need to have the best interest of the other person in mind.You cannot take advantage of the other person because of their submissive role."
In this episode, we're continuing the conversation about finding Doms, and what actually makes a good one. Spoiler: it's not about being the strictest or the loudest, it's about showing up consistently, knowing when to admit you're wrong, and understanding that feelings can (and will) change how you play. We dive into what he's actually looking for in a submissive, how he deals with performance anxiety without spiraling, and why sometimes the best thing a Dom can do is pause the whole D/S dynamic.
If you've been wondering what separates a good Dom from someone who just talks a big game, or you're trying to level up your own leadership without losing your mind, you'll definitely enjoy this episode.
Episode Highlights:
00:00 Understanding the Dom-Sub Dynamic
06:28 Educating Your Dom
11:09 Consistency in Dom-Sub Relationships
20:59 Support and Consistency in D/s Dynamics
27:29 Spotting Submissive Tendencies
38:42 Exploring New Dynamics Together
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