664 - You’re too smart, hot, & ambitious to ignore these red flags
Jan 9, 2025
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Explore the pivotal behaviors that reveal someone's lack of genuine interest in you. From inconsistency to emotional distancing, learn to recognize these red flags in friendships and relationships. The discussion empowers you to trust actions over words, ensuring you connect with those who truly value you. Don't let ambition blind you; spotting these patterns can lead to healthier, more fulfilling connections.
Red flag behaviors, such as frequent last-minute cancellations and vague plans, indicate a lack of genuine interest in a relationship.
Emotional distance, such as avoiding introductions to friends and family, signals disinterest and a reluctance to foster deeper bonds.
Deep dives
Mastering the Art of Busyness
Someone who is not genuinely interested in you often becomes exceedingly busy, frequently citing various obligations that prevent them from spending time with you. This behavior can signal a lack of effort when it comes to maintaining the relationship, as genuine interest typically results in someone making an effort to connect, even amid their busy schedules. It may present itself as lackluster communication, such as vague plans followed by last-minute cancellations without clear rescheduling. Recognizing these patterns is crucial; an individual truly invested in you will prioritize you, demonstrating meaningful effort to maintain the relationship, rather than leaving you feeling sidelined.
Excuses vs. Energy
When a person is not really interested, they tend to offer numerous excuses while failing to invest actual energy into the relationship. Excuses can initially seem considerate but often serve to mask a lack of genuine commitment and can create an illusion of connection without real effort. Patterns of behavior where commitment is promised but never acted upon leave you questioning the authenticity of their intentions. When someone truly likes you, they opt for accountability and presence over an endless supply of justifications, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling interaction.
The Dangers of Emotional Distance
A sign of disinterest is when someone keeps you at arm's length emotionally, allowing minimal visibility into their world. This can manifest as reluctance to introduce you to their friends or family, which creates feelings of exclusion and uncertainty about your role in their life. Genuine connections involve sharing personal spaces and experiences, fostering a sense of belonging and inclusion. If someone frequently avoids deeper engagement, this can indicate they don't see a future with you or are simply not interested in forming a deeper bond.
In this episode, I talk about red flag behaviors that indicate someone is not truly invested in you (friends, partners, business, etc.) I talk about actions over words and how to spot patterns with them.
My book, "That's Bold of you" is available on Amazon.
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