The Art of Engaged Indifference: Strengthening Relationships

Episode #1006

Ever get hit with a comment like “you never help around the house” and instantly go on the defensive? Yeah - most men have. In this episode, Doug sits down with TPM advisor and Alpha Reset grad Chris Hanson to break down a powerful concept: engaged indifference.

It’s not about shutting down or checking out. It’s about staying connected while keeping your cool - especially when your partner is testing the waters. Doug shares real-life examples, coaching insights, and a few tricks to help you lead with calm, stay curious, and create the kind of emotional safety that invites real connection.

You’ll also hear how this tool can help you in conversations at work, with friends, and most importantly, with yourself.

If you’re tired of reacting and want a better way to respond, this one’s worth a listen.

Ready to Fix What’s Not Working? If you’re realizing your reactions are pushing connection further away - and you want a clear path to shift that - check out the free training at fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales.

You’ll learn exactly what’s been breaking the connection in your relationship, and how to rebuild it without begging, pleasing, or walking on eggshells. It’s simple, practical, and designed for men who are ready to lead again.