
 A New Way of Being
 A New Way of Being My Husband Had a Spiritual Awakening - Here's What It Was Like For Me
 Oct 13, 2025 
 In this conversation, Alexandra Wilby, a practitioner of energy healing and presence work, shares her thoughts on her husband Simon's recent spiritual awakening. She describes her initial emotions of confusion and abandonment as Simon returned with a profound calmness. Their lively discussion touches on how this change affected daily routines, family dynamics, and even the children's reactions. They explore the couple's evolving love, the surprising healing effects of energy work, and how they might collaborate professionally to combine their unique gifts. 
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Shock Of Returning Calm
- Alexandra felt devastated and feared divorce when Simon returned unusually calm from retreat.
- She described it like a stranger had replaced her husband until small acts reassured her he was still present.
Non-Reactivity Breaks Reactive Loops
- Simon's non-reactivity removed the usual escalation cycles in the household.
- That stillness changed family dynamics because reactive loops had nowhere to land.
Calmness Expressed Through Small Acts
- Simon began cooking thoughtfully and setting candles, which surprised Alexandra as a sign he was still 'there'.
- These small changes helped her feel reassured and reconnected to his presence.
