In this podcast, the speaker reflects on the valuable lessons learned over the past decade, including running a business, personal growth, and taking action to achieve success. They discuss the challenges of motherhood while being a founder and CEO, staying focused on goals, and not being affected by distractions or criticism. The speaker also explores the process of healing after a breakup and the importance of radical candor in personal growth and relationships.
Keep your blinders on and focus on your goals, disregarding criticism and comparison.
Take continuous action towards your goals every day, as small steps add up over time.
Deep dives
Lesson 1: Keep your blinders on
Keeping your blinders on means staying focused on your goals and not getting distracted by what others are doing or saying. Despite facing criticism and competition, the speaker launched her business and refused to be deterred by doubts or comparisons. She emphasizes the importance of not looking back and doubting oneself, but instead staying confident and playing to win. By maintaining her own standards and continuously improving, she was able to overcome challenges and achieve success.
Lesson 2: Keep moving
The speaker highlights the importance of continuous action and forward momentum, even in the face of uncertainty, discomfort, or setbacks. She compares it to walking, which may seem slow but is still a valuable form of progress. Whether facing challenges in personal or professional life, she encourages listeners to take small steps every day towards their goals, as even small movements add up over time. She also mentions the benefits of movement for relieving anxiety and recommends finding ways to keep moving forward.
Lesson 3: Practice radical candor
The speaker discusses the value of honest and direct communication, known as radical candor. She emphasizes the importance of challenging others while still caring personally. By creating a balance between empathy and challenging honesty, individuals can effectively address issues and foster growth. The speaker encourages listeners to not shy away from difficult conversations or hesitate to speak up, as radical candor can lead to better relationships and improved outcomes.
Invaluable lessons learned over the past decade. Spontaneously inspired, I sat down this morning to record a brief 20-minute episode, capturing the essence of the wisdom gained.