Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

When Your Child Keeps Ignoring Boundaries and Breaking Rules, Try This

Jul 21, 2021
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INSIGHT

Children Seek Connection, Not Rebellion

  • Children who appear to love rule breaking are often seeking their parents' reaction and connection.
  • They may giggle out of discomfort, expressing feelings of being out of control and unseen.
ADVICE

Use Connection to Redirect Behavior

  • Respond by drawing children in, expressing curiosity and calm to create intimacy and safety.
  • Use gentle, connected language and physical closeness to prevent escalating behavior, especially in safety situations.
ADVICE

Proactively Protect and Reassure

  • Anticipate safety risks and proactively hold your child's hand or stay physically close.
  • Use reassuring phrases that reaffirm your love and intent to keep them safe rather than just stating rules.
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