S11E5: Sexless in the City

Let’s talk sex, no sex, our relationship with sex, and more as we're chatting with Kat Harris about her conscious decision to abstain from sex until marriage – especially while living in a city like NYC. We discuss the difference between sex and intimacy, whether or not vibrators count in popping your cherry. and standing by your beliefs when dating.

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