ReThinking Bringing out the good in kids —and parents— with Becky Kennedy (Re-release)
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Jan 2, 2024 
Becky Kennedy, known as Dr. Becky, is a clinical psychologist and the founder of Good Inside, where she offers relatable parenting advice online. She talks about redefining parental success, focusing on intrinsic motivations over external validation. The conversation delves into the significance of maintaining emotional connections post-conflict, allowing kids to provide feedback, and involving them in decision-making at home. Becky emphasizes the role of parents as emotional coaches, fostering resilience and empathy in their children.
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Mismatched Priorities
- Parents are often mistaken about their children's perception of their priorities.
- Children often perceive achievement or happiness as their parents' top priority, even when parents prioritize kindness.
Parenting Job Description
- Define your job as a parent: set boundaries and validate emotions.
- Boundaries ensure safety, while validation acknowledges children's feelings, promoting connection, not just happiness.
Short-Term vs. Long-Term Success
- Focusing on short-term markers of success can hinder long-term growth.
- Prioritizing immediate happiness or achievement can reduce a child's resilience and intrinsic motivation.