Dating Intentionally 196. The Psychology of Mixed Signals and How to Stop Obsessing
Sep 19, 2025
Exploring the tangled terrain of modern dating, the hosts delve into the maddening world of mixed signals. They share listener stories of hot-and-cold behavior that illustrate conflicting messages and explain why they can be so addicting. Discover how concepts like intermittent reinforcement and attachment styles fuel confusion. Practical steps to escape the mixed-signal trap, clear communication tips, and identifying those crucial green-flag signals are all covered. Plus, advice for late bloomers on rethinking relationship experiences makes for an enlightening listen!
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Friend-Zoning While Acting Like A Partner
- A listener dated someone who said they were just on apps to "make friends" while the listener initiated most contact.
- He later entered a serious relationship eight months after claiming he couldn't commit.
Coworker Flirtation That Turned Into Ghosting
- A co-worker flirted, invited deep commitments like meeting family, then ghosted after being confronted.
- He returned months later and minimized the listener's feelings, creating huge confusion.
Loving Words, Little Time
- Someone dated a man who professed strong interest but rarely initiated dates and often canceled.
- They ended it when he admitted he couldn't give what they wanted.