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Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda

Episode 258: Mean What You Say (But Don’t Say Things in a Mean Way!)

Mar 17, 2024
This podcast discusses the importance of honest communication in relationships, including when to speak up and how to do so kindly. It explores topics like gaslighting, consistency in marriages, navigating sensitive conversations with empathy, embracing accountability for growth, and the complexity of apologies and constructive feedback.
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Quick takeaways

  • Approach challenging conversations with empathy and humility to promote open dialogue and lower defenses.
  • Apologizing demonstrates courage and humility, strengthens relationships, and prevents unintended hurts by delivering truth with grace.

Deep dives

Addressing Concerns with Empathy and Humility

When approaching challenging conversations, it is essential to begin with empathy and humility. By acknowledging the other person's perspective and sharing your concerns gently, you can lower their defenses and promote open dialogue. It is crucial to reflect on your motives and ensure that your intention is to care for the individual, not to control or avoid discomfort. Building empathy and speaking truth in love can help navigate potentially difficult interactions.

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