ADHD Chatter Leading ADHD Clinician Reveals Scariest Side Of ADHD | Ms. Danielle Mulligan
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Nov 25, 2025 Danielle Mulligan, a UK-based Nurse Practitioner and leading ADHD clinician, shares her insights on the emotional struggles faced by adults with undiagnosed ADHD. She discusses how feelings of unlovability stem from masking and societal misconceptions. Danielle highlights the intense emotions following a diagnosis, including relief and grief, and explains Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria. She reveals the complexities of diagnosing female ADHD and the importance of early detection for mental health. Her heartfelt mission is to foster understanding and provide support for all patients.
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Chronic Self-Blame From Undiagnosed ADHD
- Undiagnosed ADHD makes people internalise repeated criticisms and believe they're 'stupid' or 'lazy'.
- That chronic self-blame explains pervasive low self-esteem and feeling unlovable.
Make Assessments Affordable And Ethical
- Make assessments affordable and timely so people can get clarity without financial harm.
- Do prioritise scalable, ethical services rather than expensive private assessments.
Crying After Diagnosis Is Common
- Danielle describes patients bursting into tears on diagnosis because things finally make sense.
- She sits with them, allows processing, and frames diagnosis as the start of a journey.
