

Spectator Out Loud: Matthew Parris, Stephen J. Shaw, Henry Jeffreys, Tessa Dunlop and Angus Colwell
Sep 29, 2025
Stephen J. Shaw, a demographer, discusses Britain's demographic challenges and introduces the concept of 'futurehood,' highlighting the need for a cultural shift. Tessa Dunlop, a historian and author, reviews Valentine Low’s book on the monarchy, exploring the evolving power dynamics between the royals and politicians. Matthew Parris reflects on the progress and fragility of the gay rights movement in the UK, while Henry Jeffreys makes a compelling case for simplifying restaurant wine lists, advocating for a more approachable dining experience.
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Secret Beginnings Of Tory Gay Rights
- Matthew Parris recalls secretive early Tory gay rights meetings in airless basements and furtive glances at conferences.
- He remembers fellow MPs like Martin Stevens urging caution while they navigated activism and silence.
Privacy Won Over Public Approval
- Matthew Parris argues gay rights won by appealing to personal privacy and asking to be left alone rather than demanding public approval.
- He warns the movement must behave responsibly to maintain mainstream respect and avoid backlash.
Tread Carefully On Contested Issues
- Matthew Parris advises caution on aligning the gay rights movement with trans issues without careful thought and respect for women's rights.
- He urges avoiding provocative stunts and showing respect to quiet doubters to preserve hard-won goodwill.